Egos That Require Boundaries For Your Health And Sanity

Why . . .   Why do some people feel the need to argue or challenge people over everything in an attempt to manipulate, control, or one-up everyone else. (They’ve been everywhere, they’ve done everything, they know it all . . . they know what you should do, become, think,… Continue reading »


At First Glance I Am . . .

I’m a woman with issues. Haha! Most days when I think about what I’m all about, I think of many really good and fun things. I love music and I love to dance. I love to be spontaneous and silly. I love to converse and talk about wild, weird, and… Continue reading »


Episode #70 Communication: Successful, Strained, or Drained.

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  Are we communicating to be understood? If not, we may need to back up.  [su_spacer] There’s good communication. There’s bad communication. There’s less than desirable communication. Drain and strain can destroy a relationship between spouses, friends, family . . . [su_spacer size=”20″] Some things I want you to consider:… Continue reading »


Episode #65 The “No Strings Attached” Commitment Epidemic

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What holds you people back from committing fully? Check Out Lifestyle Podcasts at Blog Talk Radio with Move Into Action on BlogTalkRadio Loyalty Trustworthiness Steadfastness Faith Fidelity Dedication Devotedness These things help us commit fully. What happens if we only want to commit with a “no strings attached” mindset? We… Continue reading »


The Gift of Gab! Episode #58 Protecting And Respecting Personal Boundaries

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Boundaries are a for your protection. “Many times the people closest to you will violate your boundaries, because they feel they’re either entitled to be close to you or that they’ve earned the right to be trusted by you. But, this is not necessarily true, and you cannot fall for… Continue reading »